Science Careers for Moms | Women in STEM, Career Planning, Work-Life Balance, Decision Making, Career Goals

STOP OVER-GIVING & UNDER-EARNING

Women in STEM can earn more money—without sacrificing time or energy. If you’ve ever felt the “motherhood penalty” at work or wondered why you’re still underpaid even while over-delivering, this episode is your permission slip.

Today’s guest is wealth consciousness advisor, Sarah Walton, and she breaks down why moms in demanding careers like STEM often under‑earn + over‑function—and how to unapologetically set boundaries with higher standards and clean asks.

Join us as we uncover the Over‑Giver Tax, how to spot when you’re “paying to work,” and practical ways to advocate for pay and flexibility—so your success doesn’t cost your health or family.

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EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

💰 (0:00): Teaser & Introduction

💰 (4:45): Why high-achieving women end up under-earning + over-functioning

💰 (6:11): High Functioning Codependence and the conditioning behind people-pleasing

💰 (14:36): The hidden cost of being praised as “selfless”

💰 (16:35): Stop apologizing (and stop managing other people’s reactions)

💰 (18:50): Finding the “third door”

💰 (20:07): Sarah’s famous Grocery Store story

💰 (32:12): The Over-Giver Tax and how to reset standards without guilt

💰 (38:27): Money is feedback for alignment (congruence between love and compensation)

💰 (39:30): Sarah on Wealth Consciousness

💰 (43:05): Clarifying the relationship between money and time

💰 (45:43): A simple approach to getting your ideal pay, role, or job flexibility

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ABOUT SARAH WALTON

Sarah Walton is a wealth consciousness advocate who helps high-achieving women stop negotiating against themselves. As host of The Game On Girlfriend Podcast (323+ episodes), she helps put more money in the hands of more women through her mindset coaching on pay, role scope, and work flexibility.

• The Game On Girlfriend Podcast - https://sarahwalton.com/podcast/
• Freedom Calculator (free download): https://sarahwalton.com/freedom/
• Website: https://sarahwalton.com/
• IG: https://www.instagram.com/thesarahwalton/
• FB: https://www.facebook.com/sarahwaltonpage
• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheSarahWalton
• Tik Tok: www.tiktok.com/@thesarahwalton

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QUOTABLE MOMENTS ON MONEY FOR WOMEN IN SCIENCE

• “Wealth consciousness doesn't always mean money. I'm talking about wealth in love, wealth in health, wealth in relationships, wealth in life, wealth in living.”
• “We don't apologize anymore. We say, ‘I've got to go.’ You don't have to say why. It's none of their business.”
• “These years fly by so fast. And not one of us looks back and says, ‘Yeah, but I wish I had made that marketing meeting.’ …Nobody, nobody thinks that. And so to do that to ourselves in the moment is such a disservice.”

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KEEP LEARNING ON THIS TOPIC

• Book Sarah Mentioned: “Boundary Boss” by Terri Cole – 📚 https://boundarybossbook.com
• Is guilt causing you to over-give? – ⏮️ EP 116: How To Pursue Career Goals in Science Without Mom Guilt | Work Life Balance Tips (Podcast)
• False narratives that trip up women in STEM – ⏮️ Women in STEM: 6 Work‑Life Balance Traps Disguised as “Helpful” Advice (Podcast)

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HELPING MOMS IN STEM

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If you’re a scientist and have been Googling how to stop mom guilt, this episode is for you.

You can stop feeling like you’re failing at work and home.

You’ll learn how to treat guilt as data (not a verdict) and turn it into a simple Mom Guilt Prevention Plan—so you can make clear decisions, protect family time, and stay on track in your STEM career.

Mom guilt spikes during STEM “ambition seasons.”

Grant deadlines. Paper revisions. Conference travel. Promotion cycles.

And suddenly it feels like you have to choose between: good mom vs good scientist.

This episode gives you a work-life balance framework that works inside real constraints—so you can keep moving forward without the guilt spiral.

These strategies won’t just help you “feel better.” They’ll help you:

• Preempt predictable cycles of high scientific workload with a prevention plan
• Reduce decision fatigue with clear standards (“what done looks like”)
• Teach you how to prioritize tasks and create a system of support at home & work
• Stay connected at home while you’re in a high-stakes work week

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MOM GUILT AS A WORKING MOM IN STEM - QUOTES

• “That's when it feels like you're starting to have to choose between being a good mom and making sure that people still see you as a legitimate scientist.”
• “But what if the guilt isn't more proof that you're actually doing something wrong, which is how it feels, right? What if that guilt is actually data?”

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EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

• (0:00): Mom guilt spikes during “ambition seasons”
• (2:23): The bad mom / bad scientist spiral
• (6:52): Why STEM careers create predictable “ambition seasons” (deadlines, publications, travel for work)
• (10:17): Guilt is data you can use to make better decisions
• (13:24): Build your Mom Guilt Prevention Plan that works for women in STEM + Example (Planning a grant submission)
• (18:20): Using a Focus Funnel
• (23:27): Next step: Next step + resources

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NEXT STEP

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KEEP LEARNING ON THIS TOPIC

• Time management & Focus Funnel  – ⏮️ EP 46: Challenging Schedule? 3 Simple Plans to Win Back Your Day | Time Management Tips for Ambitious Moms (Podcast)
• STEM culture thinking creating the mom vs. scientist trap – 📖 Work life balance for women in STEM: 6 myths (Blog)

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HELPING MOMS IN STEM

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3 Self-Discovery Steps to Get Unstuck as a Scientist Mom

Work Life balance after motherhood can feel impossible when you’re pulled in two directions—trying to be a good mom and a good scientist at the same time. If you’ve ever felt like you’re never fully enough in either role, this episode is your reset.

In today’s episode, we’re getting honest about why so many moms in STEM feel stuck after motherhood changes everything…and the simple life planning and self-discovery framework that helps you choose a new identity, shift your beliefs, and finally take aligned action.

Hit play to learn how to feel like a whole, integrated woman (not split between “career you” and “mom you”).

Episode Highlights

• (0:00) The “stuck in a rut” feeling (and why it’s common for moms in science & tech)
• (2:38) The real problem: trying to force an old identity into a new life context
• (6:20) The 3-step solution to designing the identity you want
• (23:17) What changes when you choose to be your best self

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RESOURCES IN THIS EPISODE

• Personal Code of Conduct (Free Download): https://solveformom.com/personal-code
• 📚 ”Grit” by Angela Duckworth
• Identity Timeline Framework: https://solveformom.com/2025/3-powerful-ways-to-find-purpose-as-a-mom-beyond-the-daily-routine/

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HOW TO GET UNSTUCK - SHAREABLE QUOTES

• “So much changes once we become moms - and yet we still look at ourselves, expect from ourselves, and perform as if we are the same person we were before becoming moms.”
• “You're being pulled in so many different directions, and you're trying to have it all without a clear plan.”
• “Your identity drives your beliefs, your beliefs drive your actions, and your actions create your results.”

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Women in STEM: If you want to have both - a meaningful science career and a rooted family life —and you’re done feeling like you’re “failing at both”… this NEW SHOW is for you.

This is a short welcome episode where I’m introducing the new podcast name and focus: Science Careers for Moms.

If you’re a STEM-trained mom who wants to have both: a meaningful science career and a rooted family life (without burning out, second-guessing, or trying to do it all), you’re in the right place.

After listening, you’ll know:

• If this show is for you and what to do next
• The 3 outcomes you can expect from the show: STEM career planning clarity, Decision-making frameworks, and Systems to support work life balance
• How this show creates instant community with women in STEM who share insider stories and experts who offer solutions supporting scientist moms

You don’t need the perfect routine or more willpower—but you do need a framework that fits real constraints of a demanding career and realities of mom life…like maternity leave, childcare logistics when you travel to conferences, sick kid weeks, and grant review deadlines.

Let this show be your key to escaping the cultural trap that forces women in STEM to choose, so you can build a clear path to whole-life success.

 

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MOMS IN STEM - SHAREABLE QUOTES

• “The culture of science wasn’t built for caregivers.”
• “You should never have to choose between being a good mom and being a good scientist.”
• “Here’s what I learned: ‘trying harder’ can’t be your only strategy. That just leads to burnout, guilt, and living a very fragmented life.”

 

KEEP LEARNING ON THIS TOPIC

• What work-life balance is (& is not) – ⏮️ EP 108: Work-Life Balance Question: What Does “Being Aligned” Really Mean as a Scientist Mom? (Podcast)
• Career-life integration flips the script – ⏮️ EP 111: Design Your Life, Then Set Your Career Goals: Purpose-Driven Personal Growth for Moms in STEM (Podcast)

 

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Identity Shift for Women starts when you stop making decisions from an old version of yourself.

If you’re a mom in STEM who’s successful on paper but disconnected inside, this episode will help you make clear decision-making choices without self-blame.

Riana Malia is a board-certified neurosomatic practitioner and identity architect with 20+ years in personal development. She helps high-achieving women regulate their nervous system, clear old patterns, and make aligned decisions without reliving their whole story.

This conversation is about the invisible reason your decisions feel harder than they “should”: your identity and your nervous system are still operating from an older version of you.

You’ll learn a practical clarity-first framework (values + non-negotiables), a simple way to stop people-pleasing, and a micro-practice that interrupts the loop of decision fatigue.

If you keep trying to “think your way out,” you’ll stay stuck. This episode shows you how to make decisions from safety and clarity so you can move forward with confidence.

“I’m doing all of the right things. Why can’t I figure this out?” If that’s you, hit play.

IDENTITY SHIFT FOR WOMEN - QUOTABLE MOMENTS

• “You cannot solve a problem with the same mind that created it.”
• “Between now and dead, what do you want?”
• “If you want a different story, you have to stop telling the old one.”
• “And the thing about your unconscious mind is it will never make you a liar.”

 

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS 

• (0:00): Teaser
• (2:56): Introducing Riana
• (4:45): Identity shift and how lack of clarity leads to almost what you want
• (6:49): Conscious vs. unconscious mind: why insight alone does not always create change
• (12:05): Boundaries and people-pleasing: the clean yes / no decision making
• (19:58): Clearing “expired ways of thinking” to make room for what’s next (Pantry/closet metaphor)
• (22:11): The 24-hour rubber-band rewiring practice (“magnet for miracles”)
• (30:01): Moving from an old identity & self-blame to a “next level” identity - Riana’s heart-felt story
• (41:17): Being “in” vs. “on top of” your identity story
• (43:28): In 72 hours(!), rewire your way of thinking to make room for what’s next
• (0:00): Listener gift
• (51:04): Riana’s information

 

 

RIANA’S LINKS

• Free diagnostic - The Extraordinary Love Index (E.L.I™ Assessment): https://quiz.rianamalia.com/
• Website: http://rianamalia.com 
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rianamalia/
• IG: https://www.instagram.com/rianamalia/
• FB: https://www.facebook.com/RianaMalia
• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@rianamalia
• TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@rianamalia121

 

 

KEEP LEARNING ON THIS TOPIC

• The perfect decision making sequel – ⏮️ EP 107: Confident Decision Making for Ambitious Moms | Unlocking Intuition for Aligned Action [Leadership Advisor: Leah Goldman] (Podcast)
• How identity affects burnout & balance – ⏮️ EP 77: The Identity Crisis That's Causing Your Burnout (& How to Finally Find Balance) [Dr. Jihane Farrell - Part 1] (Podcast)
• Life planning framework - 📖 Why Planning is the Key to Time Freedom for Ambitious Moms (Blog)

👉🏼 My Designed Life Method empowers moms in STEM with a clear plan for pursuing their career without sacrificing family time. Get Started for Free!

 

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Work-life balance for working moms in STEM feels like constant juggling—lab deadlines, family responsibilities, career demands, and that nagging feeling you're failing at all of it.

And somehow you're still supposed to pursue meaningful work and be present with your family?

This episode is your clarity.

I'm walking you through what "being aligned" really means for scientist moms—not the vague Instagram version, but the concrete kind where your values, vision, and daily decisions all point in the same direction.

From the car tire metaphor that explains misalignment to three real-world examples you'll recognize (connection & family, meaningful work, health & wellbeing), these are the insights that will help you feel like yourself again, stop fighting against yourself, and actually create a life where career and motherhood fit together.

This episode is for you if:

• You feel unbalanced in your roles as a mom and a scientist
• You feel disconnected and lost from the successful side of yourself
• Your calendar is 100% work and logistics (but family connection matters most to you)
• You're tired of feeling like being a "good worker" and a "good mom" are incompatible

By the end of this episode, you'll understand that alignment isn't something you "get" once—it's a process you design through intentional life planning.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

• (0:00): Teaser
• (1:54): Listener Review – "Enjoying this"
• (2:37): Living as a misaligned mom
• (4:37): What does "being aligned" really mean?
• (5:34): Signs you're in vs. out of alignment
• (7:03): Example 1 – Family time
• (9:09): Example 2 – Personal development
• (10:47): Example 3 – Health & wellbeing
• (12:02): Why alignment matters for STEM moms & how to get into alignment
• (14:06): Life planning as the tool for sustained alignment
• (15:44): Wrap-up

WANT TO GO DEEPER ON ALIGNMENT?

• Clarify your core values – ⏮️ EP 103: Are Core Values Different From Career or Family Values? (Podcast)
• Aligning your career with your values - ⏮️ EP 105: Guided Journaling Exercise for Career Clarity (Podcast)
• Life planning framework - 📖 Life Planning – How to Design & Achieve a Life That’s Right for You (Blog)
• Design a life where your STEM career and motherhood finally fit together - 📞 Turn your ideal life into your real life with the Designed Life Method (Get Started for Free)

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Decision-making for moms doesn't have to feel overwhelming. As a high-achieving mom in science, tech, or research, you've spent years building expertise—but when everything feels urgent at home and work, even the simplest choices can leave you second-guessing yourself.

In this episode, I share 6 simple ways to pull data from your life (internally & externally) to make informed decisions, especially when you struggle with decision overload or worry about making the "wrong" choice. I'll share:

• How to move from constant overwhelm to confident, data-driven decisions using six practical strategies
• How to use your own life as data—your values, goals, energy, and resources—to make choices that actually align with your ambitious, family-first vision
• How life planning can turn decisions from pure guesswork to a a process that strategically factors all domains of your life

Episode Highlights

• (0:00): Teaser
• (1:54): 🤩 Listener Review 🤩
• (2:59): Why high‑achieving moms in STEM experience decision overwhelm
• (4:44): The real sources of decision fatigue
• (7:09): What “data‑driven decision making” looks like in real life (beyond spreadsheets and numbers) and how to use your own life as data
• (9:19): 1. Trust your gut
• (12:57): 2. Values-based decisions
• (14:29): 3. Goal-oriented decisions
• (15:28): 4. Priority stack
• (17:49): 5. Feasibility assessment
• (19:50): 6. Whole Life Impact
• (21:43): How a life plan becomes your personal data source and decision‑making filter
• (23:44): Wrap-up - How to take action on a decision that’s weighing on you

→→→ Feel like you’re juggling too many priorities without a clear direction? 📞 Reserve a free call where I’ll run an Alignment Audit to find out if life planning can bridge the gap between your current life and your ideal life.

Keep Learning On This Topic

Decision-making for moms that blends soul & strategy - ⏮️ EP 60: “At a Crossroads? The #1 Way to Make Decisions You’ll Never Regret (Podcast)

Zoom in on values-based decision-making - ⏮️ Why Prioritizing Your Core Values Beats Any Pros & Cons List (Podcast)

Life planning framework - 📖 Life Planning – How to Design & Achieve a Life That’s Right for You (Blog)

 

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// Life Planning Tools for Moms Striving to Balance Ambition and Motherhood //

If you're feeling the urge to clarify your core values in the new year or are being pulled in multiple directions, this episode is for you. In this Figure It Out Friday episode, I answer the question: Are your core values as a mom and a STEM professional different from your career or family values?

I’m not talking about creating rigid rules or fitting you into a box. This is about why misalignment between your schedule and your personal values leaves you feeling disconnected and “not like yourself” and the first step towards taking ownership of your decisions in life so you can start this year feeling grounded and in control.

If you're ready to move from feeling disconnected and unbalanced to having ownership in everything you do, and if you want to create a life plan that honors both your ambitions and your family, this one's a must-listen! I also share personal and client stories showing how core values like connection, faith, and financial freedom can guide both family culture and career moves.

Episode Highlights

• (0:00): Teaser
• (1:59): Ask me a question
• (2:28): A simple, clear definition of core values and how they shape your identity and decisions
• (5:48): The crucial differences & overlaps between family values, career values, and personal values, and which parts of yourself to prioritize—with real‑life examples
• (7:12): Why so many high‑achieving moms in STEM feel unbalanced when personal, family, and career blur together
• (9:15): How core values are foundational to life planning (like goal setting, time management, and personal growth)
• (11:59): Wrap-up

→→→ If you are looking for a way to stop choosing between “success” as a scientist and “family time” and instead design a version of success that supports both - then sign up for private coaching on my Designed Life Method

P.S. Your first call is free, and I’ll run an Alignment Audit to get your customized life plan started!

Keep Learning On This Topic

How to apply what you just learned - ⏮️ EP 35: [Coaching] Planning For Your Future Life by Prioritizing Your Values Now (Podcast)

Zoom out on identity & values - ⏮️ EP 22: Be the CEO of Your Life – Freedom to Have Ambitions During Motherhood | Life Planning 101 (Podcast)

Life planning framework - 📖 Life Planning – How to Design & Achieve a Life That’s Right for You (Blog)

 

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// Life Planning Tools for Moms Striving to Balance Ambition and Motherhood //