

Have you ever been told that work-life balance for women in STEM is a myth?
Do you want a meaningful science career and a rooted family life —but you worry that you’re “failing at both”?
Are you running low on time, energy, and sleep, trying to keep up with grant deadlines, conferences, and kids?
Do you wonder if negotiating career shifts, flexible jobs, STEM-adjacent roles, or maternity leave is proof you’re not a serious scientist?
Welcome to Science Careers for Moms — a TOP 2.5% GLOBALLY RANKED PODCAST for women in STEM who want a career path where they can thrive in science without sacrificing their family or personal wellbeing.
Hi! I’m Anokhi Kapasi, a PhD researcher and mom of two boys. I created this show because I know what it is like to feel torn between being a serious scientist and a present mom —and to realize that “trying harder” is not a strategy.
This show is different because it integrates career and life planning strategies designed specifically for science-minded moms in a work culture that was not built for caregivers. Every episode blends interviews with other scientists who have been where you are and career planning deep-dives where you will learn the answer to questions like:
🎯 Are there decision-making frameworks to help me navigate pivots, return-to-work, academia vs. industry…or to even know what the “next right move” is?
🎯 How do I set career goals that allow me to stay ambitious, connect with my family, and feel like myself again?
🎯 Is work–life balance for working moms in STEM actually possible, and what does it look like in practice?
🎯 Can I stay in science & tech without burnout, guilt, or losing sight of myself?
STEM-trained moms, I’ll teach you how to make confident career decisions that align with your whole life —not just professional development.
🎧 FOLLOW this show and never choose between being a good mom or a good scientist again!
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📩 QUESTIONS: hello@solveformom.com
🌐 VISIT: www.SolveForMom.com for more resources & information
Have you ever been told that work-life balance for women in STEM is a myth?
Do you want a meaningful science career and a rooted family life —but you worry that you’re “failing at both”?
Are you running low on time, energy, and sleep, trying to keep up with grant deadlines, conferences, and kids?
Do you wonder if negotiating career shifts, flexible jobs, STEM-adjacent roles, or maternity leave is proof you’re not a serious scientist?
Welcome to Science Careers for Moms — a TOP 2.5% GLOBALLY RANKED PODCAST for women in STEM who want a career path where they can thrive in science without sacrificing their family or personal wellbeing.
Hi! I’m Anokhi Kapasi, a PhD researcher and mom of two boys. I created this show because I know what it is like to feel torn between being a serious scientist and a present mom —and to realize that “trying harder” is not a strategy.
This show is different because it integrates career and life planning strategies designed specifically for science-minded moms in a work culture that was not built for caregivers. Every episode blends interviews with other scientists who have been where you are and career planning deep-dives where you will learn the answer to questions like:
🎯 Are there decision-making frameworks to help me navigate pivots, return-to-work, academia vs. industry…or to even know what the “next right move” is?
🎯 How do I set career goals that allow me to stay ambitious, connect with my family, and feel like myself again?
🎯 Is work–life balance for working moms in STEM actually possible, and what does it look like in practice?
🎯 Can I stay in science & tech without burnout, guilt, or losing sight of myself?
STEM-trained moms, I’ll teach you how to make confident career decisions that align with your whole life —not just professional development.
🎧 FOLLOW this show and never choose between being a good mom or a good scientist again!
🗣️ GUEST INTEREST FORM: https://calendly.com/anokhi-solveformom/guests-on-solve-for-mom
📩 QUESTIONS: hello@solveformom.com
🌐 VISIT: www.SolveForMom.com for more resources & information
Episodes
Friday Dec 05, 2025
Friday Dec 05, 2025
Your resume gap isn't the problem. Your skills gap isn't the problem. Career change during motherhood isn't the problem.
The problem is that you don't know which skills to prioritize or how to find time to develop them while managing family responsibilities.
In this episode, I'm sharing how to transform skill development overwhelm into strategic career momentum. From identifying transferable skills you already have to creating a micro-learning approach that fits your busy mom life—you'll learn to develop the 1-3 core skills that matter most for your career change.
And the best part? You can do this without burning out or sacrificing what matters most to your family.
I'm walking you through the exact 3-step process: the Hidden Skills Audit to uncover capabilities you've developed through motherhood, strategic research to identify your core skills gap, and a micro-learning approach that works within 15-30 minutes daily.
These strategies won't just help you learn new skills. They'll empower you to:
- Finally tackle the career change you've been avoiding for months
- Shift from "my skills are outdated" to "I have transferable strengths" and "I have a capacity to learn"
- Make consistent progress without overwhelming yourself
- Build demonstrable competency in core skills within 3-6 months
- Gain the confidence in your target field
- Stop cycling through ideas and start taking action
If you're ready to stop letting life just happen to you and want to confidently take your first step toward meaningful work that aligns with who you are now, this episode is for you.
Episode Highlights
- (0:00): Teaser
- (2:01): 🤩 Listener shoutout
- (3:01): Feeling unqualified and self-doubt after a career pause
- (7:26): 1. Discovering your hidden transferable skills
- (12:03): 2. Understanding skills gap and self-doubt
- (12:41): 3. The skills development roadmap approach
- (14:05): Micro-learning and practice
- (18:19): Your next step & Recap
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👀 Want a sneak peek? Book your Free Life Audit call 📞 with Anokhi now!
Career Change Series
⏮️ EP 86: Career Change for Moms: Get Unstuck from the Wrong Job [Part 1]
⏮️ EP 88: How to Test Your Career Change Without Risking Family Stability [Part 2]
⏮️ EP 92: Career Change Clarity in 3 Steps Without Losing Work‑Life Balance [Part 5]
⏮️ EP 94: Feeling Selfish About a Career Change? Try This 3‑Step Leadership Reframe [Part 6]
Free Resources
💌 Grab my newsletter for twice-monthly tips, tools, and exclusives—so you can build a life that honors both your ambitions and your family
✍🏻 The go-to blog for ambitious moms
📱Free Life Planning Quiz
🌐 Visit solveformom.com for more information and FREE resources
I Want to Hear From You!
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📫 E-mail hello@solveformom.com
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// Life Planning Tools for Moms Striving to Balance Ambition and Motherhood //
Friday Nov 28, 2025
Friday Nov 28, 2025
→ → → Ready to fast‑track your ambitions during motherhood with a clear plan? Use science-based Designed Life Method and get a custom action plan that fits your busy schedule—spots are limited, so claim yours at solveformom.com/book-life-planning
👀 Want a sneak peek? Book your Free Life Audit call 📞 with Anokhi now!
Your struggle with guilt for wanting a career change (and to be more than "just" a mom) isn't the problem.
Feeling torn between loving your kids while wanting to do things for yourself isn't the problem.
Your heart calling out for more isn't the problem.
The problem is that society glorifies self-sacrificing motherhood while sidelining women's ambitions—making you question if pursuing a career change is selfish.
In this episode, I'm sharing how I went from constantly putting my own needs and dreams on hold…to finally creating a career that works for me instead of the other way around. From reframing ambition as leadership to life planning—I've built a life where I can be everything I need to be for my kids, my career, and myself.
And the best part? You can do this too.
I'm walking you through what I call the 3-step leadership mindset, what makes this reframe so powerful, and the exact strategy that transforms career guilt into confident decision-making—so you can blend success and motherhood without choosing between them.
Episode Highlights
- (0:00): Teaser
- (2:41): 🤩 Listener shoutout
- (3:37): The guilt of wanting a career change as a mom
- (7:30): Leadership mindset
- (9:00): Step 1: Reframe
- (12:19): Step 2: Anchor
- (16:05): Step 3: Leadership
- (16:53): How to confidently pursue career change without guilt
- (18:24): Wrap-up & How to take action
Links Mentioned in Episode:
❇️ Stuck in a career that doesn't align with your values? Grab my Free Values Alignment Workbook to gain clarity on whether to stay or pivot. Download instantly 👉 https://solveformom.com/core-values
Career Change Series:
⏮️ EP 86: Career Change for Moms: Get Unstuck from the Wrong Job [Part 1]
⏮️ EP 88: How to Test Your Career Change Without Risking Family Stability [Part 2]
⏮️ EP 92: Career Change Clarity in 3 Steps Without Losing Work‑Life Balance [Part 5]
Free Resources:
💌 Grab my newsletter for twice-monthly tips, tools, and exclusives—so you can build a life that honors both your ambitions and your family
✍🏻 The go-to blog for ambitious moms
📱Free Life Planning Quiz
🌐 Visit solveformom.com for more information and FREE resources
I Want to Hear From You!
🙋🏻♀️ Question, topic idea, or feedback? Record a message in just one click!
📫 E-mail hello@solveformom.com
➡️ Tag @solveformom on LinkedIn and Pinterest for daily tips to find balance one micro-step at a time
👍🏽 Tap +Follow and never miss an episode. Leave me a rating & review—your support helps other moms find the show!
// Life Planning Tools for Moms Striving to Balance Ambition and Motherhood //
Friday Nov 21, 2025
Friday Nov 21, 2025
If you're feeling the urge to gain career change clarity, this episode is for you. I'm pulling back the curtain on how I personally help moms identify their next best step through vision mapping—and how you can do the same without decision paralysis, overwhelm, or needing to have your entire future figured out.
This isn't about picking one perfect path forever or betting your entire life on a single decision. It's about exploring multiple possible futures, building clarity through small steps, and taking aligned action toward a career with your values in the forefront, so you can shift into a new career without fear of making the wrong choice.
In this episode, I walk you through how to:
- Future Cast – Explore three different versions of what your life could look like if you pursued different paths
- Explore – Identify one small step you could take in the next week to test one scenario and start gathering information
- Iterate – Continue taking small exploratory steps without committing to one rigid path, building momentum through action
If you're experiencing uncertainty or confusion about your career direction, and you are ready to pivot to meaningful work using a simple decision-making framework, then this episode is a must-listen.
>>> Ready to get a clear plan to build right career & home life for you? My Designed Life Method is the right step for you. Together we’ll envision your ideal future, and create a customized roadmap to get you there. Let's design your future together! 📞 Book your free exploratory call with me now!
Episode Highlights
- (0:00): Teaser
- (2:22): Analysis paralysis during career shifts
- (7:35): Why traditional career planning fails professional moms
- (8:01): Step 1 - Future casting and exploring multiple scenarios
- (13:16): Step 2 - How to take steps towards a new career
- (15:45): Step 3 - Building momentum for a career pivot
- (18:42): Wrap-up
- (20:55): 💌 Grab my newsletter for twice-monthly tips, tools, and exclusives —including journal prompts —so you can build a life that honors both your ambitions and your family
Career Change Series
⏮️ EP 86: Career Change for Moms: Get Unstuck from the Wrong Job [Part 1]
⏮️ EP 88: How to Test Your Career Change Without Risking Family Stability [Part 2]
I Want to Hear From You!
🙋🏻♀️ Question, topic idea, or feedback? Record a message in just one click!
📫 E-mail hello@solveformom.com
👍🏽 Tap +Follow and never miss an episode. Leave me a 🤩 rating & review—your support helps other moms find the show!
➡️ Tag @solveformom on LinkedIn and Pinterest for daily tips to find balance one micro-step at a time
🌐 Visit solveformom.com for more information and FREE resources
// Life Planning Tools for Moms Striving to Balance Ambition and Motherhood //
Friday Nov 14, 2025
Friday Nov 14, 2025
Are you looking for a fulfilling and flexible career that brings you both personal and financial freedom? In today's Part 2 interview, I sit down with Amy Rasdal, founder of Billable at the Beach®, to talk about how to plan your career change to consulting and build a flexible business without starting over.
Mama, you DON’T NEED TO A COMPLEX SET-UP—but to start a consulting business successfully, you’ll want to learn about how to avoid some common mistakes that independent consultants make.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
- 📎 The 3-4 essential things you need to get started as a consultant (hint: it's not a website or logo)
- 📎 How to leverage your existing expertise without starting over—even if you've never been a consultant before
- 📎 The biggest mistake consultants make and how to avoid it
- 📎 Practical ways to build client relationships that align with your values as a mother while setting boundaries that prevent burnout
- 📎 How to create a flexible work arrangement (20-30 hours/week) that provides excellent income while staying present for your family
Let's dive into this incredible conversation with Amy Rasdal!
⏮️ Missed Part 1? Listen: EP 89: Is Your Full-Time Job Stealing Your Family Time? How Consulting Creates Work-Life Balance While Earning 6-Figures
Quotable
"Once I finally just started demanding what I was worth, nobody ever batted an eye. Nobody laughed in my face and said, ‘oh my gosh, that's ridiculous.’"
"You really owe it to the world to get your talents out there. People need you. It's not an imposition."
"You're standing on this foundation of valuable, sometimes even rare experience."
Episode Highlights
- (0:00): Introduction
- (2:10): The 4 essential things to start consulting and why you don't need a website or logo to land your first project
- (5:16): How nurturing connections leads to projects coming to you, and the importance of saying no
- (6:07): The biggest mistake that consultants make
- (9:58): Building client relationships that align with your values as a mother while maintaining work-life balance & creating a flexible work arrangement
- (16:07): How building your own business allows you to stay present for your family while fulfilling your potential
- (21:10): Wrap-Up & Next Steps
These chapters highlight the key tactical advice and transformational moments from your conversation with Amy.
>>> Your next breakthrough to living out your ideal life starts with clarity. 📞 Sign up for a no‑obligation 30-minute call where we’ll surface the biggest issue you face, pinpoint what you truly want, and evaluate if my 1:1 Plan Your Ideal Life coaching is the right catalyst.
Amy’s Links:
Website: www.BillableAtTheBeach.com
Follow Amy on LinkedIn
Free Course: https://www.billableatthebeach.com/free-course/
Free Webinar: https://www.billableatthebeach.com/free-webinar/
Book - Land a Consulting Project NOW!
I Want to Hear From You!
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📫 E-mail hello@solveformom.com
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// Life Planning Tools for Moms Striving to Balance Ambition and Motherhood //
Sunday Nov 09, 2025
Sunday Nov 09, 2025
Do you ever feel like your full-time job is stealing precious moments with your family? In today's Part 1 interview, I sit down with Amy Rasdal, founder of Billable at the Beach®, to talk about how consulting creates work-life balance while earning six figures.
Mama, you DON’T HAVE TO SACRIFICE career for motherhood—but to truly achieve a sense of balance and control over your time, you need the strategies and structure to support it. Let's dive into this incredible conversation with Amy Rasdal!
What You'll Learn in This Episode: ⛓️💥 Why ambitious moms feel trapped between career success and family time, missing important moments despite earning good money ⛓️💥 How consulting helps overwhelmed moms manage their schedules while still earning what they're worth ⛓️💥 Practical ways to leverage your expertise to build client relationships that align with your values ⛓️💥 How to create a more flexible work arrangement (20-30 hours/week) without sacrificing your earning potential
So excited for you to jump in!
Quotes
"My flavor of consulting is superhero, superpower, super pay. You go in as an expert with whatever your superpower is. You're paid well."
"What it really comes down to for me is really mindful choices and prioritization. And then also still finding time for what's important in your family, what's important in your career without losing the self part of you."
"As a consultant, you actually have more impact on your client companies."
Episode Highlights
- (0:00): Teaser
- (3:08) Work-Life Balance struggle of fitting it all in and thinking in seasons
- (7:59): The biggest misconception about independent consulting
- (9:16): Amy's "superhero, superpower, super pay" approach to consulting
- (10:52): How Amy transitioned from corporate to consulting 15 years ago
- (13:38): How to balance family, career, and self without losing any part of you
- (20:12) Wrap-Up - Key takeaways and what's coming in Part 2 (EP 90)
>>> Your next breakthrough to living out your ideal life starts with clarity. 📞 Sign up for a no‑obligation 30-minute call where we’ll surface the biggest issue you face, pinpoint what you truly want, and evaluate if my 1:1 Plan Your Ideal Life coaching is the right catalyst.
Amy’s Links:
Website: www.BillableAtTheBeach.com
Follow Amy on LinkedIn
Free Course: https://www.billableatthebeach.com/free-course/
Free Webinar: https://www.billableatthebeach.com/free-webinar/
Book - Land a Consulting Project NOW!
I Want to Hear From You!
🙋🏻♀️ Question, topic idea, or feedback? Record a message in just one click!
📫 E-mail hello@solveformom.com
💌 Grab my newsletter for twice-monthly tips, tools, and exclusives—so you can build a life that honors both your ambitions and your family
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🌐 Visit solveformom.com for more information and FREE resources
// Life Planning Tools for Moms Striving to Balance Ambition and Motherhood //
Friday Nov 07, 2025
Friday Nov 07, 2025
You weren't made for staying stuck in work that drains you.
Yet every day, the thought of making a career change feels overwhelming—between the fear of failing when your family depends on you, the uncertainty about what direction to take, and that nagging question: What if I'm making a huge mistake?
But what if the reason you're paralyzed by career change isn't because it's too risky… but because you're thinking about it in all-or-nothing terms?
In today's episode, I'm walking you through the steps to test your career pivot in small, low-risk ways so you can make long-term changes without disrupting your family's stability.
These are the same strategies I use with my life planning clients—each one designed to shift you from being paralyzed by fear of career change to confidently moving towards new career change possibilities.
Let's break it down!
>>> Want a confidence boost before you dive into a career change? Grab a no‑cost 30‑minute coaching call 📞 with Anokhi and leave with one concrete next move you can implement today!
Episode Highlights
- (0:00): Teaser
- (2:22) Understanding the fear of making a pivot when family depends on you
- (3:04) How all-or-nothing thinking makes career change feel daunting
- (6:04) Testing career pivots without risking stability
- (7:37) 2-hour framework from awareness to action
- (15:55): Example of a low-risk, experimental career change
- (17:31): How life planning de-risks and guides career transitions
- (20:24): Key takeaways & setting up accountability to taking your first step
Links Mentioned in Episode:
⏮️ EP 86: Career Change for Moms: Get Unstuck from the Wrong Job [Breakthrough 1]
➡️ Get some accountability by sharing one career change step in the comments section of any Solve for Mom LinkedIn post - and I will help you follow through! Don’t forget to tag @solveformom.
📝 Free Personal Accountability Template
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// Create a Clear Plan to Turn Your Ideal Life Into Your Real Life //
Friday Oct 31, 2025
EP 86: Get Unstuck from the Wrong Job | Career Change for Moms - Part 1
Friday Oct 31, 2025
Friday Oct 31, 2025
You weren't made for feeling stuck in a career that no longer aligns with your values.
Yet every day feels like a push-pull—between the career you've built, the family depending on you, the guilt about wanting something different, and the fear of making a change and failing.
But what if the reason you're feeling stuck isn't because you're failing or indecisive… but because you're making decisions based on fear instead of your unique values?
In today's episode, I'm walking you through a life planning framework to get unstuck from the wrong job so you can finally move toward a career aligned with you and your vision.
These are the exact strategies I used in my own life—each one designed to shift you from uncertainty and hesitation to confident action, and bring clarity about whether to stay in your current role or pursue a career change.
Let's get into it.
Episode Highlights
- (0:00): Teaser
- (2:18): 👍🏽 Tap +Follow and never miss an episode.
- (2:31): The "stuck" feeling is normal for ambitious moms considering career pivots
- (8:08): Understanding the real cost of staying in misalignment
- (11:40): Mindset shift from "I'm trapped on this career path"
- (13:50): What life planning is and why it works for career transitions
- (17:40): The Values Alignment Exercise: Your first step toward clarity
- (20:08): Recap
Links Mentioned in Episode:
⏮️ EP 5: Career Change to Pursue Your Passion Work - Reset With Confidence
>>> Stuck in a career that doesn't align with your values? Grab The Ultimate Guide to Values Alignment: The 15-Minute Exercise That Changes Decision Making Forever to gain clarity on whether to stay or pivot. Download instantly 👉 solveformom.com/resources
Free Resources
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📱Free Life Planning Quiz
Start your life planning journey for free. 📞 Book a call with Anokhi now!
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// Turn Your Ideal Life into Real Life Using Life Planning //
Friday Oct 24, 2025
Friday Oct 24, 2025
Your career feels stuck between what you're skilled at and what you're passionate about—safe corporate roles with proven track records, or meaningful work that actually energizes you but feels risky.
And somehow you're still supposed to find work-life balance, maintain financial stability, and be a present mom?
This episode is your career clarity roadmap.
I'm walking you through the exact 5 questions I use in my coaching practice to help high-achieving moms navigate the passion versus skill dilemma without feeling confused, lost, or desperate to find purpose again.
From identifying when you feel most energized to evaluating what skills people actually pay you for, these are the strategic questions that will help you find meaningful work that doesn't burn you out, shift your career to fit your life as a mom, and move forward with confidence and clarity.
What You'll Learn:
- REAL COACHING call insights from a mom navigating this exact crossroads
- Why the PASSION vs. SKILL debate is a false choice—and what to focus on instead
- The Ikigai framework adapted specifically for working mothers
- 5 strategic questions to identify where your passions and skills intersect
- How to choose your next JOB or CAREER transition
Episode Highlights
- (0:00): Introduction
- (1:45): Welcome! 👍🏽 Tap +Follow and never miss an episode.
- (2:05): A client’s career crossroads
- (9:03): Should you choose a career based on passion or skill?
- (14:04): Introducing the Ikigai framework for moms
- (17:06): Self-discovery exercise (5 Questions)
- (20:30): Wrap-up & next steps
Links Mentioned in Episode:
📚 ”Grit” by Angela Duckworth
>>> Ready to create a personalized roadmap that guides your biggest decisions? Start with a Free Exploratory Call to see if private coaching is right for you. In our call, we'll discuss your goals and how life planning can help you make bold choices without losing balance as a mom. Book your Free Exploratory call 📞 with Anokhi now!
Let's Connect!
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// Life Planning Tools for Moms Who Want to Make a Difference at Home & Work //